Thursday, December 3, 2009

Our new baby is here!

This is how the story goes......
Wednesday night I had a bunch of family members coming into town for Thanksgiving the following day. That evening, I felt a tiny bit of pressure, but decided to just go to bed and sleep it off. On the morning of Thanksgiving, I felt just fine and went about my morning as usual. However, there was this tiny, nagging thought in the back of my head that I kept shoving aside. I wasn't due until December 27th after all... Anyway, I decided to call up to the hospital in Tooele to see if I could possibly just get checked out really fast and give myself some peace of mind, and then I could enjoy the rest of my Holiday with the family.

So I went up and they checked me out quickly enough. But I wasn't expecting the answer I got! The doctor on call there told me I was 90% effaced and dilated to a 4 and that I was going to have a baby soon!  What?! I started crying because I was in denial about it. I just kept thinking to myself, "I have to get home and start the mashed potatoes!" Until it finally hit me that I was probably going to miss Thanksgiving Dinner!

Given my previous history and how fast Jaden came...without pain - they didn't want to take a chance on me delivering in Tooele, then taking the baby into Salt Lake for pre-mature care. (Tooele is not equipped to take care of preemie babies).

So after a shot of terbutaline in my arm to stop the labor, I headed off on the University of Utah's Life Flight helicopter! I seriously was still in shock and denial... and off I go on life flight?!?! But what about those mashed potatoes! Oh dear.

Anyway, that shot of terbutaline stopped my contractions for the rest of the blasted day! I was surviving on ice chips while the rest of the family was dining on hot, fresh turkey, pumpkin pie, corn, stuffing, and of course the mashed potatoes that someone made in my place. :)

Well Thanksgiving day came and went and so we are now on to Black Friday. I could be shopping! But I began having some closer contractions that morning instead. Still no pain and still the denial that I was in labor. However, 3pm came and I was dialted to an 8 and ready to go. By now I'm starting to feel some of the contractions. Then the doctor came in and broke my water. That's when I REALLY STARTED TO FEEL IT! What the crap?! I felt nothing with Jaden and so here I am trying to go natural and it's about to kill me. In fact, I probably died somewhere in there because of the intensity of the pain!

At one point the anesthesiologist came in and I was BEGGING her to give me an epidural. They sat me up and as she was prepping, I was in more pain than ever. AND the contractions wouldn't stop long enough for her to get that needle in my back! I lied and told her as I was coming out of a hard contraction, that it was in between contractions and to just shove the blasted needle in my spine already! Well, I felt something, not sure what, but I was wracked with another deathly moment of horrific contraction pain. -And then I only wanted to push!

So I told her to forget it because I was pushing! They laid me down and I pushed twice and out popped Rendon! Wait a minute, that sounded kind of easy. I only pushed twice because the pain was so excruciating, I knew I didn't want to spend the rest of the hour pushing. It was killer! I knew the harder I pushed him out, the sooner it would be over!

And after I delivered my precious baby boy naturally, my foot got a tingle in it. And hence, the teensy bit of epidural she tried putting in, started to work. Yes, AFTERWARDS!!!!! 

Well, the worst of it was over and I was the happiest person in the world. My sweet baby boy was born.  Rendon came during his 35th week, just like Jaden. He weighed in at 5lb. 7oz and 20 inches long. Yes, very long indeed!

But I was so happy that he got to stay in our room with us, and not be whisked away to the NICU. He did remarkably well for being such a little guy. He only was jaundice for a little bit and that was it. They released him on Monday, November 30th.

One of the worst parts of being in the hospital since Thursday, was that Maddie and Jaden were stuck at home. They weren't allowed into the hospital at all because of swine flu precautions. Luckily, it being a holiday weekend, I had a bunch of family in town to take care of them. Then from Saturday to Sunday, they went to Grandma Norths. How grateful I am for such wonderful, helpful family! Thanks so much for taking care of Maddie and Jaden! They were so concerned for me and their baby brother.

This first picture is of me enjoying my Thanksgiving Feast of ice chips. Notice the forced smile.


Our new baby! Rendon Miller Brown came at 3:48pm on 11/27/09


Little Rendon under the billyruben lights to get rid of his Jaundice.


A cute picture I took of his feet! Notice the poor little knickmarks from the I.V.s and things they had to do to him!


And finally, one of the greatest moments a mother can have. I was so emotional when I got to finally see my kids after such a long weekend. They had no idea I was coming home on Monday. So I hid in the front room with the video camera and got them as they walked in the house. They rounded the corner to the front room and were SO HAPPY to see the sweet baby waiting for them!

18 comments:

Traci said...

debbie-
he is soo adorable! you just love the heck out of him, time flies! glad you 2 are well and you are home with your family, now enjoy the holidays!!! rendon just wanted to come early so he could get some christmas prizes too!!!
take care!!!

erika said...

He is so tiny like a little toy doll.
Makes me want anothter.

Janell said...

Debbie, I'm sitting here with tears rolling down my cheeks as I read about your new addition. I am so happy that you are both healthy and happy. Give that little guy a kiss for me and a BIG Congrats to you. You are an awesome mom. Rendon is one lucky boy to be able to come to your home. Luv Ya, Janell

Janell said...

Debbie, I'm sitting here with tears rolling down my cheeks as I read about your new addition. I am so happy that you are both healthy and happy. Give that little guy a kiss for me and a BIG Congrats to you. You are an awesome mom. Rendon is one lucky boy to be able to come to your home. Luv Ya, Janell

Christian and Karen Robinson said...

DebT! I'm crying too! I know how hard it was to get this little guy here! He is absolutely adorable. I'm so glad you got your Christmas present early!! Love you!!

Kris and Kelli said...

I'm glad you finally updated your blog with the details. I've been checking regularly to know. Congrats! Be glad the baby wasn't born at Christmas. That just sucks!

Kally said...

Debbie Im so happy you had your little boy and everything he was so healthy! He is the most precious little thing. Something about having new babies gets you (meaning me) all teared up, so precious! Love when rendon gets to meet new family members! So sweet, congrats to you and matt. We love you!

val said...

This was so sweet to read and see....tears from me too, and not just over the mashed potatoes! :/ I am so excited for you and your family, and sure wish I was nearby so I could come sneak a peak... I'm sure Rendon and my Machoo have some catching up to do! Way to go natural...I can't even imagine...is your foot still numb? Mine actually still is a little! Love you lots, and lots of big kisses from St. George!!!

Anonymous said...

Aww i have not even meet him yet i will hopfully on monday when i bring ur gift. And i already freaken love him!!!! ugh i cant wait love u mother Deb

Havelah said...

I'm crying too! I am so happy for you guys...I am sorry that you had to go through such pain, but oh, what a precious experience!! It makes me so excited to have another one. Just holding your baby for the first time...SEEING your baby for the first time...seeing your family with your baby for the first time...sigh. I am so happy for you guys!

The Holmes Family said...

Wow Deb, what a story. I'm glad I got to hear about your experience. That's one amazing story to tell. Sucks about the epidural thing. Wow, you are amazing. Congrats, and he is so precious. I'm glad I got to see him. I hope those diapers worked out well for you guys. Heaven knows my little boy wouldn't fit into preemies. lol.

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Lyndee said...

Congratulations! He his darling. I am sorry you had such a painful time. They are sure worth it though.

Allison Claire said...

Congratulations! What a surprise! He is beautiful. :)

Brenda Campbell Hansen said...

Debs, I love you all so! So happy we got to see your family and little Rendon! What a happy surprise! Love you!

MikesDork said...

Congrats Debbie and Matt.... we look forward to meeting him in July... he will be big by then!

k8shoe said...

Wow! What an eventful Thanksgiving weekend! Congrats! Rendon is so cute and tiny! Thanks for sharing your story!

Kitty said...

Congratulations! Matthew was 20inches too!Now I have another sweet cousin!

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